This Sunday is designated as National Grandparents Day in our nation. Today there are more than 6 million children or approximately 1 in 12 children that are being raised by their grandparents or other relative. This has been a gradual trend in our nation over the last few decades due to divorce, neglect, teen-age pregnancy, death of parents, incarceration, unemployment, abuse, alcohol, drug usage or abandonment.
Grandparents accepting the additional responsibility of parenting their grandchildren are experiencing additional stressors to their lives. They feel more strain due to their own concerns of health and financial responsibilities. If they have downsized their home for their retirement they will need more space to accommodate the children. The additional medical care expenses of the children can also be a burden for them. Their dreams of retirement change dramatically along with their social life and interests. There is also the emotional duress of coping with these changes and accepting their fate of raising their grandchildren.
Historically grandparents have been a support to the family system sharing their wisdom and knowledge with other generations. Today they are stepping up to the challenge of raising their grandchildren and fulfilling the role of parent and grandparent to these children. Support for grandparents raising grandchildren is vital to the well-being of the caregivers. Studies show that grandparents that are successful in their new role receive support from other family members, their church and support groups.
Raising grandchildren can be both challenging and highly rewarding. Grandparents also understand that there is no greater gift than receiving the love and respect of their grandchildren who appreciate the sacrifices that have been made for their safety and well-being. So take the time this weekend and let your grandparents know that you appreciate how they have enriched your life. Have you hugged your grandparents today?
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