When a family member or a close friend is diagnosed with a serious illness the most important thing you can do is make sure they feel truly cared about. The illness should not be a secret and all family members and children should be told. If children are not told of the illness they will sense a change in the family and become very anxious, thinking that they may be the cause of the problem. Children are also very nurturing and can bring joy and laughter to a very stressful situation. As family and friends ask how they can help and support you during this time, be specific with your needs. It may be helping with your carpool, taking the person to doctor appointments, fixing meals or just running errands. It will be important that you learn as much about the illness as possible, so everyone can be prepared for the potential outcome. As you are supporting others during this time of illness, it will also be important that you take care of yourself. It is very difficult to meet the needs of others, if you haven't replenished your own.
Take care,
Gina
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