Parents the holiday season will bring out the "wants" in your children. This is an opportune time to teach your children the difference between "wants and needs" by doing a service for others. It helps children identify how fortunate they are to have their needs met in a loving environment.
If you have teenagers they are going to want to venture to the mall with friends to do a little shopping. One role of the parent is to prepare children for the new environments that they will encounter. Going to the mall alone or with a friend will be a new experience for you child. Prepare you child by discussing safety, store security systems, and the legal consequences of stealing.
Some teens will steal because it is a statement of rebellion, thrill seeking or their parents just won't let them buy the item. Try and teach your children the concept of working for items they want and to resist the notion of instant gratification.
If your child has been caught shoplifting, studies report there are approximately 23 million shoplifters and about one-quarter of them are teenagers. Most businesses will press charges against shoplifters. If this happen, support your child but have your child take responsibility for their choices. If the business gives your child a warning, decide on a community service project your child can do to pay restitution for their behavior. If shoplifting becomes a persistent problem with your child you will need to seek professional help.
Best wishes.
Gina
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